The very best way to go about anal is to begin orally: a finger in the ass makes cunnilingus about a million percent more enjoyable. A few orgasms into the session, another finger can be added. A few minutes of this, and you’ll be practically begging for anal sex… and you’ll be both physically prepped and mentally ready for it.

Your first port of call before embarking on an anal adventure is to know your bum business. This does not mean watching anal porn for tips on how to slam her. You need to have a clue what you are doing. Look up instructions on the net. You can find various position and tips for anal dating at adult dating resources so it can be very helpful to u.

How to introduce it: When you think you have a clue of how to do it properly, bring it up. A simple Have you ever had anal sex and enjoyed it? Works. There are only two answers to this question. If the answer’s yes, ask if she would she like to do it again. If the answer’s no, ask if she would be brave enough to try it with you. Pull out your instructions and educate her. Every woman can enjoy anal sex if it’s done right. The orgasms are different, and can be quite intense. Pull out your instructions. Sell it to her. Try to find more clues and tips with online dating site how to make comfort your girl in anal sex.

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First: I think that we as women need to discuss anal sex beyond and outside of the context of women being penetrated by men. This context is too narrow.

Second: To enjoy it you need: lube, patience, the right lube, to feel safe, self-awareness, more lube, a willing partner, a patient partner, communication, and knowledge of your partner, curiosity, and trust.

Lube: Lubrication is necessary when you first trial! If you are starting to explore this aspect of love making it is essential that both partners become familiar with the sensations of both giving and receiving this form of loving touch.

Relax: A girl is quite startled and for a moment fearful by the sensation at first. But men do not try to penetrate her and within a few of minutes it felt normal. He should vary the thumb pressure a bit from time to time and he should move his thumb around a bit. Women will feel good. Then they should change position and his hands moves elsewhere. She will feel safe when he touches her back there and everywhere else.

Explore yourself: Later that she can try emotive him in a similar manner. Her interest about exploring anal sensation further must be activated. Soon she experiments with anal penetration when he masturbates. Point of advice: Start small and use lots lube.

Patience: Eventually she will find the courage to have men penetrate her anally. That experience is the most joyous loss of virginity of her life. You should be relaxed, trusting, prepared, and ready.

If you still find any kind of difficulties then you can ask any gay couple so you can get more practical information from them. Beside that you can ask also some women who like to have anal sex with her partner.

What not to do: It is not cool to just try to put it in by mistake. This is excruciatingly painful. Always have permission, and never pressure her. The trick is getting her to want it.

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